Thursday, February 08, 2007

Inter-gender communication class today:

-In male/female communication, men think independently and women think collectively.
-A man should be the king of the castle, but always TELL the queen how important she is, otherwise she's gonna go find another kingdom.
-Each partner must have their own sense of self-worth or else they are in danger of only find ing worth from the other's opinion.
-Women are motivated and pleased when they feel cherished and treasured, men feel motivated and pleased when they are needed and important.
-Communication allows you to serve others.
- When a girl has a problem, she wants understanding from the boy, but the boy's instinct is to give a solution. Solutions are emotion-less, though they may fix the problem perfectly and promptly, BUT more than FIXing the girl wants understanding a.k.a. sympathy.
-Women see life as a community, they strive to preserve intimacy and avoid isolation. Men value independence and status. However, all humans need both intimacy and independence, we just tend to focus on different things.


I love my classes this semester!

3 comments:

Anonymous said...

We are glad to see our money is going to good use. Ha! Enjoy yourself. I am praying for you daily. Praying that you will have a GREAT semester.

Anonymous said...

yeah, thats what should be taught in university ;-)

makkeboome said...

I get it ok... I am also just human... geee... no need to tell everybody